The Challenges of Social Sharing, Why I Worry More About Relevancy Than Privacy

Social sharing is a major behavioral shift. We are constantly answering questions like “Where are you? What are you doing? What are you buying?”

Sharing information allows one to show their personality, and connect and collaborate with others across the globe based on a mutual interest in a topic. In our hyper connected and information filled world, finding and sharing great content targeted at specific groups or audiences, is a skill that is increasingly important.

Even news publications, who sell online advertising by getting traffic to their site, are looking to increase the amount of offsite links included in news stories. Everyone is jumping on the curation bandwagon.

Ok, so now that we agree on that, here come the challenges–

If  you’re a brand how do you share and create content that keeps the interest and attention of all of your customers?

What is the right mix of news, press releases, and content from other sources that will keep  your audience on the edge of their seat?

Oh, you also have to mix in replies to customer service requests and intelligent banter with your current and potential customers?

This whole social sharing thing is starting to sound a bit more challenging.

From a personal perspective, you have many friends with a variety of interests. How do you appease all of them with a Tweet, or by sharing a blog post on Google Reader or Facebook?

Regardless of the larger privacy issues of the social web (What you want the world to potentially see, and what you do not), the question of relevancy is becoming increasingly important.

How do you control what you want some friends to see and not others?

In all honesty I’m less worried about Facebook having control over my data, then I am about clogging a high school friend’s FB stream who has little interest in me or digital culture.

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  • http://ryanstephensmarketing.com/blog/ ryanstephens

    Good thoughts here Danny. This is definitely something I'm already struggling with. I've added SOME online friends who I'm relatively close with to my Facebook account, but thus far I haven't “liked” any of their pages. I've managed to keep Facebook & Twitter relatively separate, but as more real-life friends join Twitter many are asking, “WTF are you talking about?” half the time.

    I think a service/feature that can help us effectively sort and filter both incoming and outbound content will grow increasingly important.

  • http://www.theoceanagency.com Danny Prager

    Thanks for stopping by and the comment Ryan. Good to hear I'm not the only guy struggling with this issue. Twitter lists and Facebook Friend groups just aren't really cutting it. I find it frustrating that everyone is obsessed with privacy, when a lot of the complaints are better explained by a lack of relevancy. Having control of who sees what seems just as much a relevancy issue as a privacy issue.

    So. Let's solve this problem? Seems easy enough right?

  • Erik Talgo

    Great post Daniel. I think you hit the nail on the head in terms of relevancy. As we begin to look at ourselves as media channels, the challenge to interact on a meaningful and relevant basis will only increase. Traditionally, media has operated on an opt-in basis, by which we sought out and chose our sources of information. Newspapers, magazines, TV and radio created content, whether it be entertainment or even news, and that content was targeted with a specific audience/consumer in mind. Social media has afforded great opportunities for individuals to create and share their own content, however the means of targeted distribution haven't quite kept pace. If I have a funny story to tell a friend, or a group of friends, I don't dial the entire contact list in my phone and tell everyone I know. As you mentioned, this is the problem we're facing on social networking sites when we want to share with a only a specific audience in mind. More and more now, my non-work related friends who join Twitter complain about how they have no idea what I'm talking about in most of my tweets. Having the ability to group by topic and interest, and share on a hyper-targeted level, is definitely the solution to the problem. Facebook still has a lot of work to do on this, although some Twitter clients are making progress. For now though, I'm sticking to the strategy of using Twitter as more of a professional tool and Facebook for personal purposes.

  • http://www.theoceanagency.com Danny Prager

    Thanks so much for the insightful comment Erik. Like you, definitely use Twitter more professional and Facebook for more personal purposes. But the lines are blurring. It will be interesting to see what kind of answers emerge as solutions to the relevancy problem.

    When you said that some Twitter clients are making progress, what are you referring to? Would love to hear more.

  • eriktalgo

    You're right the lines are blurring. In some ways though that might not be a bad thing. I have made an effort recently to become more open on Twitter, and it has made for better connecting.

    In terms of the progress for Twitter clients: as of now the only service I know of that lets you communicate in groups directly is GroupTweet. It's actually a 3rd party app that converts DMs into tweets between a group following an account. I heard TweetDeck is coming out with some new features to their desktop version that should address some of these problems. Although, it looks right now they are focused on coming out with a mobile web app for Android and Blackberry.

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